To the editor:

One definition of “grace” is courteous goodwill.

This is no easy task during the times of COVID-19. Even holding the door for someone (once known as “common courtesy”) can be a problem, as we attempt to remain six feet apart from each other for safety’s sake.

But there is much we can do to be “connected” and still show grace to each other. I think we forget, so focused on staying safe, that we are human beings, and part of that “being” is to “be” a part of society. Exchanging kind words and kind glances is such an important part of being a good human!

All of us know that wearing a mask can be fun. Last week, I tried to lick a droplet of milkshake as it overflowed the edge of the cup. Of course, being so accustomed to wearing my mask, I didn’t realize it was on, and I licked the inside of the mask while the milkshake ran over my hand and onto my lap! I had to laugh at myself! What else could you do?

I write this to ask you a favor. Yes, you. Please wear your mask. Please be safe. Maybe no one has told you directly, or maybe there is not anyone to ask this of you, but because I care about you, please. Be safe.

The second favor I will ask of you is to smile! Yes, I can see the “crinkles” (a much better word than wrinkles) in the corner of your eyes when you do! And I will, I promise, smile back at you! Even masked, it makes a big difference to smile.

Wearing a mask, we are not mute. We can still say “good morning!” We can still ask each other “How are you on this fine day?” We can ask about the family or talk about what a great year it is for tomatoes. We can still connect with each other six feet apart, we can wink, we can giggle; adaptable people that we are, we can do SO much to let each other know, we care.

We can still, show a little grace, to each other.

Be well,

Tricia Bock, Nashville

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